How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
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By Shannan Rouss
Thanks to social media, it's easier than ever to keep constant tabs on our friends and acquaintances. We know when someone gets engaged, buys a new house, lands a book deal, boards a plane for the Mayan Riviera. And sure, we're happy for these people—ok, mostly happy. Because it's hard not to feel a twinge of envy, which can easily spiral into all-out self-pity. To help you avoid the slippery slope that is comparing yourself to others, here are eight quotes to remember.
Think It Over2 of 9
Another way to say this? Worry about yourself. If you take a long, hard look at what someone else has, chances are you might realize it's not really what you'd want after all—except maybe for that trip to the Mayan Riviera.
Run With It3 of 9
Instead of competing against others, try competing against yourself—against what you know you're capable of accomplishing when you're at your best. That should give you more than enough to strive for.
Back to Work4 of 9
And speaking of competition... if ever there was a place where the credit-takers take credit, it's on Facebook. Leave them to their self-congratulatory posts. There are plenty of more interesting things to do with your time.
Why Worry?5 of 9
Shocking, we know, but apparently other people are too preoccupied with themselves to be monitoring our every move—which is sort of liberating.
Start Here6 of 9
Comparing yourself—in moderation and with a whole lot of perspective—is actually ok. Just use it to motivate yourself to get to where you want to go.
Good for You7 of 9
When has Dr. Suess ever been wrong?
Odd Doings8 of 9
Don't compare—instead, contrast. Look for ways to be different. It's a lot more fun.
Simply Stated9 of 9
Well, that pretty much sums it up.
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