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When To Keep Mum

9 Things You Should Never Say to Your Husband

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  • "Yes, I had an orgasm." (when you didn't)

    Lying is never a great idea, especially when it comes to sexual intimacy. "The definition of intimacy is letting another person see your vulnerabilities," says Ford, and that includes admitting that your sex life might need some TLC. When you pretend you're enjoying sex, you may think that you're sparing his feelings, but you're actually pushing him away by not being honest. And chances are, you aren't fooling him: The very fact that he's asking usually means he suspects that something is up. When broaching the subject, start with the positive: "Express appreciation of the fact that he even wants to know—'that's so thoughtful of you, honey,'" suggests Ford.

    Then, while you're both clothed and not in the bedroom, bring up some things you enjoy sexually and that you would like to try in order to enhance the experience next time around, taking care not to place blame on him. By emphasizing what arouses you and what you two can do in the future, you'll spare his feelings without duping him in the process.

When To Keep Mum
9 Things You Should Never Say to Your Husband
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